Baby, it's cold outside.

Yes, I'm back to bitch about relationships.

So I've never particularly WANTED to have a relationship or went around saying 'I want a boyfriend, I need a boyfriend' etc. I just take it as it comes. And taking into consideration the kind of person I am, someone even remotely having romantic feelings for me is a rib tickler. In any case, lately, I've been hearing people say that they are 'looking' for a boyfriend/girlfriend. or they whine about not having a boyfriend/girlfriend.

eh wait, please calm down for a second and think about things.

Having a relationship, especially in Singapore, IS NO EASY THING.

it costs $$$$$.

now would you want to spend $200-$300 a month on someone else, for food, entertainment etc etc, or would you rather use that money on yourself? don't fool yourself into thinking that relationships are like those in Glee Club where everything will be okay if you break out into a song in the middle of the canteen or some thing.

relationships are not only expensive, they're mentally and physically draining. until you get to the point where both parties have fully understood each other's good and bad, relationships are TERRIBLE. you do something, it offends the other party, you spend time trying to explain only to make things worse. the vile words will come out, things they dont mean and will later regret saying. there will be shouting, crying and whatever drama. then someone has to go out of the way to show they still care cos the other party will cocoon him/herself until some effort is put in to show a change. it's always the same old crap.

sometimes you wonder if it's even worth all this trouble. 

so, my advice is that, instead of looking for a